A lot of people’s sex lives have stagnated, mainly due to the pandemic and its many lockdowns. People were unable to go out, meet sexual partners, and have fun. Instead, they spent months (and some even years) stuck indoors watching television, using dating apps, and masturbating.
If you are somebody whose sex life hasn’t been going to plan, then you need to take action. Spicing up one’s sex life might seem challenging in theory, but it is actually a very easy thing to do.
Here’s how you can spice yours up
Performance Issues
If the reason you aren’t having fun in bed is that you aren’t performing well, then you need to take action. Performance issues are a big problem for a lot of men. One of the main performance issues men face is erectile dysfunction, or an inability to get, then maintain, an erection. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a lot of different things, from anxiety to depression. It can even be caused by underlying health conditions and diseases. The use of a penis pump can be an effective way of spicing up your sex life. Penis pumps provide extra blood flow to your penis, helping it to get hard, and stay hard. Some men also experience premature ejaculation, which can be very troubling, and ruinous to one’s sex life. Premature ejaculation is something that can be treated through medicine, and through self-control. There are lots of guides online that teach people to control themselves.
Building Stamina
Another reason that a lot of men don’t perform well in bed is that they don’t have a lot of stamina. If you do not have a lot of stamina, then it will be impossible for you to perform well, because you won’t have the energy to. A good way to build up your stamina is to start going to the gym, exercising more, and eating well. One particularly beneficial activity for building stamina is jogging. Going out jogging and endurance running will help you to build up a lot of stamina and get into shape.
Trying New Positions
Trying new positions out can be fun, too. A lot of people only ever perform missionary. Missionary is indeed a very fun position, but it can get boring fast. Consider trying out doggy style, or perhaps 69’ing your partner. The best way to figure out which positions are right for you and your partner is to sit down and discuss the topic with them. If you are both very open people, then discussing sexual positions should not be awkward in any way. In fact, it could be a good way of bonding.
Exploring Sexuality
Very few men ever explore their sexualities. Exploring one’s sexuality can be a liberating and enjoyable experience. If you have never delved into your sexuality before and have no idea what truly turns you on, then why not visit a porn site and check out the different categories available? Porn sites are without a doubt the best place to explore one’s sexuality because they are safe, private, and free. You don’t have to worry about being judged or making a mistake when you use a porn site, because nobody will ever know what you have been looking at or doing.
Considering Toys
Sex toys can be a great way to spice up your sex life. You can use them alone, or with your partner. In particular, anal beads and vibrators are the most fun. Men can use these toys, too. Dildos can also be used, but they aren’t something that a lot of straight men would consider using. If you are open to trying new things, though, then maybe they are worth using. Sex toys can be a highly effective way of spicing your sex life up, because they introduce new things to the bedroom, and are a great way to try more adventurous things.
Threesome Participation
Finally, consider participating in threesomes. Threesomes can be very erotic. More and more people are trying threesomes these days. If you are somebody who’s open with their sexuality, then why not try a threesome with another person of the same sex and a person of the opposite sex? Alternatively, you can try a threesome with two people of the opposite sex. If you do not have the connections (or are not confident enough) to find people to have threesomes with, then consider hiring two escorts, and having a threesome with both of them.
If your sex life is boring, then start spicing it up. There’s no point in having an unfulfilling and unsatisfying sex life. You only live once, so get out there and enjoy yourself.